I think girls who are deemed “bitchy” are actually probably some of the most genuine people you will ever meet.
I know this is kind of an outlandish statement, so I’ll dissect my reasoning. In order to be classified as a bitch, a girl has to say or do something that others think is mean. Simple as that. Well, someone please tell me someone, even one person, that they can whole heartedly say has never done something offensive, rude, or manipulative. If you have a person in mind, that’s awesome I’d like to meet them, but chances are they probably have…they are just the secretive bitch, the behind the scenes backstabber. And that to me is way worse.
The way to tell the difference right away is when everyone says “oh yeah she can be really bitchy,” that’s the outright bitch. When people some people love her and others can not stand her, that’s more characteristic of the secretive bitch.
The outright “bitch” is going to say and tell you what is on her mind. However, at least you know the worst of it, there is going to be nothing said once she walks away, turns the corner, or opens her phone to text. She got all of it out to your face, you know exactly where you stand with her.
Now take the secretive bitch. This girl will probably act like your best friend, compliment you, and if you’re a boy, flirt with you incessantly. Then the minute you’re out of earshot, you better believe she is telling her posse every little thing that bothers her about you and probably devising ways to make everyone turn against you. The secretive bitch is an actress. A vindictive, talented actress.
I’m not supporting either kind of bitchiness. I think killing with kindness is a much better way to go about life. “Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good f*cking life” is one of my favorite quotes. I’m just saying people automatically assume they should stay away from people they are told are “bitches.” Really they need to ask why is this person a bitch. And if it’s type 2, proceed with caution. Type 1 will be upfront and it may sting initially, but chances are it’s just a flesh wound and you can shake it off. This is where I believe they can be connected with the word sincere. They mean everything they say, even if it’s not what you want to hear. Type 2 however, they’re the ones who are most likely to leave you with scars.